but she always comes to my hang out spots, i don't know if she knows that is where i hang out. she would keep walking past me, close enough to smell me. when she does do that i would chat with her and we will ask a few questions and move on being social with other people at the venue.
my problem is this. i asked her out on a date and she said no, but then she would keep around me or checking me out when i talk to other girls. she broke up with me a while ago but she knows i don't beg and i will not beg.
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Definitily sounds like she comes to your hang out spots on purpose so she could be around.
Maybe something about you makes her not want to date you again. So she takes her time around you to help the healing process.
I noticed some have this thing "well, i don't really need him/her that way, but as i'm used to have them around all day, i will keep around for a while so i can gradually let go".
Happened to me once that a girl tried to keep in touch in a pretty similat way and moved across the street. I was as polite as i could be, but never engaged in chit-chat and useless conversations. She did not like it.
I won't get into details but it was the best thing for me. She was peobably thinking i'd stick around like a puppy dog and boost her ego while i would get mentally fucked. Weeell NO!
She most likely enjoys to know you still need her