This might sound sad but before , my latest boyfriend of five years I haven't been with anyone. How do I get over him? The break up was horrible and on the phone I am heartbroken as I don't know where to start as we was planning our future by buying a house. It ended a week ago. He won't speak to me as its how he handles things and I feel so lonely. I keep crying and crying then day drea, and cry again. I don't know how to handle this. I have barely eaten and not finished a meal since.