Basically there's this brown girl, I don't know her in real life but she's not too attractive, but she's a friend's friend and she's the only girl in the group chat for this video game. I play the video game too but well the person who was doing the invitation is not close to me, so he invited his friends including my boyfriend and that girl. That girl is kind of trying to flirt with my boyfriend by sending him hearts and she keeps saying stuff like "You're always in my heart." she's said that to not just my boyfriend but a bunch of other guys in the chat.
I read this off his fb, that he gave to me himself. My boyfriend didn't even ask me if I wanted to play a game today, instead he asked her. He's playing with her only, without any of his guy friends. Better yet, she knows I'm in a relationship with him.
wtf? Why do guys who are in relationships love the attention other girls give them so much?
What should i do in this situation; am I just being insecure or is there something going on?
I really love him and he tells me that too. I feel like he's just bored with our relationship or something. He has done a lot to show me affection but he's also done to make me lose trust in him..
Most Helpful Guy
From life experience I can tell you this, 1. people tend to not notice who is paying attention to them when they are single 2. When i've been single for a while I get rusty in the lady department and when I do get back it again I almost feel like I was out of the gym for a while then you start working out again and you notice every muscle you built up and every pound you've lost. I get used to picking up on females cues and all that jazz again 3. If you about to be off the market or off it already those people who like you will obviously want to try to get you back 4. Another reason peoples interest ramps up in you when you are taken is because your partner is giving the world the seal of approval that you are in fact datable.
I can give a funny story about this, so I dated this girl a year ago, we split then started talking again and things look like we'll date again. Around this time I'm taking summer classes in college, I'm a military veteran and my college has a veterans center so me and the other vets hang out there. I made some new friends one being a girl and about 3 weeks of knowing her, I told her about who I'm seeing, she tells me "I got a rash on my boobs from wearing a sports bra" and sends a side boob pic to me...0
Most Helpful Girl
I'm really sorry but I wouldn't stand for that treatment from him. If he isn't getting something he needs from you, then he needs to communicate that to you and allow you a chance to help fix the situation. A relationship can't be fixed of one party is seeking the answers from outside of the relationship.
To me it seems really disrespectful of him to entertain her flirting and need for attention when it's obvious she likes him. He's in a relationship and shouldn't be doing that. How would he feel if the situation was reversed and you were the one entertaining a guy who liked you? I'm sure he would be uncomfortable with that.
I say you should have a serious sit down talk with him. If he is pulling away, that could be a sign he is not interested in continuing on.1