There is a fellow I am friendly with. We started talking a few months ago and he shares a lot of things with me. I am starting t like him but now I am starting to pull back those feelings. He seems to like me but is distant sometimes. I know his ex really hurt him and he is quite bitter. I am trying to help him work through it as a friend. I know he has to heal on his own too. I wonder sometimes if this is a lost cause. I am starting to become turned off when he ignores me and then tries to contact me.
Am I over-reacting? Should I give him more time and just be patient? He is a nice person.
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it is not that he is being wishy-washy, he probably DOES have feelings for you but is holding back due to the inability to presently move past his most recent heartbreak. If you enjoy being his friend, make it clear that you are only seeking his friendship and not something more. This will not only take the pressure off of him but it will also spare your feelings! Who knows what the future holds? Good luck!0