I used to date this guy (on and off for 3 years) and one day he just ghosted me. He basically just ignored all my texts and calls until i finally gave up after two weeks.
We've both moved on with our lives (he migrated to the US and I graduated from college).
Two years later, he found out I was on vacation in the US and started flooding my inbox with messages.
What would suddenly possess someone to reach out to someone they've ghosted in the past?
Most Helpful Guy
Surely that's a better question to put to him? Unless he addresses it (satisfactorily), you won't be able to move the relationship forward: Hence, that dirty word, *communication* :)0
Most Helpful Girl
Lots of balls makes a guy reach out after ghosting!! Haha.
Unless he's messaging to apologize for being a complete ass than who cares what he wants. Maybe he has grown up but if he knows your just "in the area visiting" I would think he's testing the waters with you.
Balls in your court to decide if what he did to you would be worth it.1