Hi, my boyfriend for almost 3 years broke up with me last week because his dad found out about us. His family doesn't like me because I just came from middle class and he came from a wealthy clan. We tried our best to hide it. I've waited for 2yrs (LDR) and now that he's back they've found out about us. And he was forced to let me go or else they will send him back to the US and won't pay for his college anymore. He's 26 and I'm 27. We really love each other and we don't know what to do anymore.. it's really hard for us because we've planned for our future already yet he can't fight for his love for me. He told our mutual friends that he still wants me to be his friend and still hopes that we can be together as soon as he graduates. But having no commitment is really hard, I hate this overthinking.. waiting for another 2 years and this time we're not a couple really hurts. He might fall inlove with someone else. :( next month will be our last meet up and I don't know if we're gonna put things to end or try to make it work (but we ran out of ideas). One more time that he'll get caught he'll be sent back to the states. Please help.. I really love him and we've been such a good bestfriends /couple. I mean mental connection is rare. We can even tell each other's thought or what we are thinking. It's so sad knowing that even if the couple really love each other but can't be together because of family disapproval.
My boyfriend for 3yrs broke up with me cuz his family doesn't like me. We really love each other, We are both in pain. help me please?
What Guys Said 1
If the two of you are as close as you believe, then you both can plan for and survive a two year wait as a LDR.1
What Girls Said 1
This is sad. I totally understand you, I would say just because his family doesn't like you doesn't mean you two have to break up. I mean it's between you two and what you feel for each other it shouldn't be about the wealth plus they aren't dating you, but if he has to finish school and if it's meant to be it will be. Maybe it's a good thing but I get what you're going through try to communicate and figure out if he what is best for you two instead of listening to what his family wants to listen to what he wants and what will make him happy. Money isn't everything it comes and goes and more you make the more you stress. Being with someone you love is priceless1
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