Thank you!Do you think it's not important, right?
it's important to show that you worth it (ignore him)... but it's too late and doors are closed for any chances= self-esteem.
If he wanted me back he would say more right?
He could just be starting off with that, seeing how you reply and going from there
Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions
What if your ex hurt you?
Then they are strangers to me. Tbh you can't go from loving someone to hating them in an instant. You need a steady fall.
He texted me that 3 weeks ago... but now I'm missing him. I didn't want to break up, he broke up with me saying he was toxic
Tbh If I was that guy, and you didn't reply for 3 fking weeks, ultra red flag right there.
He broke up with me via text. I still love him and wanted to help him but h is a drug addict who doesn't want help
This is the problem with you people, you never do what you ought to and want to do and then string along strangers for opinions on your personal lives.You loved him, thought the relationship will last and he texts you he's done bc he's toxic and this shatters you. You didn't deserve it, he hurt you. You missed him you cried. You thought he played you.He love you, thought the relationship would last, a realization hit him, he felt depressed that he does drugs, thought you deserve better than a drug addict loser boyfriend than him. He breaks up with you. Depressed for days. Missed you every day. Finally buckled up the confidence to contact you again, to check up on you. You don't reply. Further saddened.It's not rocket science, it's something called, putting oneself in other people's shoes aka empathy.
(Those are just two extremeties which are likely to be true.)Also, next time don't give anyone "he broke up with me" bullshit.It takes two to form a relationship. It takes two to break it.
Thanks for your opinion. I always tried to help him you know, he had anger issues and sometimes it was very hard to deal with him. But I didn't want to let him go, I thought we could work things together.He broke up with me via text... and he didn't even want to talk to me. His mother said that he doesn't worth it and she was really mad that he was acting like that. I asked him: " are we broken up? do you still love me?" and he only said: "yes and yes"... nothing else.
Do you think it was rude?I just don't want to suffer anymore and to have expectations
I don't think it's rude. If you feel like you're suffering, then I guess just block the number so you don't even have to know when he's texting you.
I blocked him but he sent it from another number.
Oh shit. To me, it seems like he's really trying to reach out to you. See what he wants. But like I said, if you feel THAT threatened and you feel like you're really suffering, then just block it again.
if it was important he would have explained when he reached out... instead of just saying "hey"
@orphan that's not true at all. I don't send long, meaningful texts to somebody unless I know they're actually at their phone
exactly my point... if it was important you'd want them to know regardless... for instance if someone died.
What do you think that could mean? That he wants attention?
1 year and a few months but he broke up with me for 2 months before
What that means? That he wants attention?
yes he wants attention
Thanks, I agree with you!