How do I get out off this situation., really need some help :(
Most Helpful Guy
Tom Petty says it best: "The waiting is the hardest part".
You have a broken heart. Congratulations! You are human now!
Honey, this will take time - lots of time. Let life happen to you. It helps if you can get involved in something that interests you because this will help take your mind off if this.
One day, the pain will subside and you will meet another man and get into another relationship and all will be right with the world again. That said, your are changed forever already. If this is your first broken heart, you will never return to who you were before that event. In many ways, this is a good thing... for you and everyone else... because it makes you will disappear in timehuman; less judgmental, more empathetic, you value little things more... a while myriad of new perspectives will develop!
... but, until that happens, yeah, depression often occurs, but, like a bad cold, it will disappear in time. You just have to wait and try to keep your mind occupied on something other than this failed relationshio to help make the time pass and the depression not so deep.
Most Helpful Girl
Just get over him and get into the dating scene. Throw his gifts away, get involved in a new activity.
We’ve all heard virtually the same advice, and some if it can be helpful, but breakups suck no matter what.
Breakups from any type of relationship can cause sadness, grief or depression whether a woman initiates the breakup or not.
When there’s depression involved, it’s best to see a therapist or psychologist, but there are some actions you can do to ease some pain. One thing to keep in mind is that thoughts of an ex can interfere with your life if you let them.
Each time those thoughts come up, distract yourself. You can’t block him from coming up, but you can stop yourself from dwelling on that person. What you need to do is weaken the ties with him, so you don’t want to be dwelling on him because that reinforces the ties.
Build something new, you'll get better soon.
Wishing you the best of luck.