If your serious boyfriend or girlfriend cheated on you, and you got back together with them, would you ever cheat down the line just to make them as upset as you were? What about cheating just to cheat...Would it make you care less if an opportunity ever arose?
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The fact of cheating disgusts me.
When someone cheats, it's because there was opportunity in the situation and a doubt in the relationship. Those two factors combined, can shatter the heart of the other person. Cheating in itself is very selfish. If you can't confide in the person you are with emotionally / physically / etc- TO A POINT that you need to find it in other people, it's time to break off the relationship.
Cheating, in any shape or form, is unnecessary. You can pick up the phone and make a 5 second phone call to say "We're through" and then presume with what you were doing. Even better yet, you could have spoken up LONG before that situation and said "Josh/Jane, I found soemone else that has caught my interest. I'm moving on. Thank you for being part of my life"