So my current boyfriend who recently had been mistreating me, suddenly tells me he just wants to be friends after 5 months of dating. He also adds, that he wants to still be friends and still likes me a little..
Should I try to talk to him still or completely move on?
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I guess I’m going to update my comment, because of knowing how he mistreated you. First off that’s all emotional actions he was putting out towards you. In my opinion I don’t think anyone should treat people like that. It hurts the person, and in the long run it hurts the relationship, and the friendship you once had.
Because in away a relationship is only a bigger part of a great friendship, and people these days I feel are moving too fast, and starting relationships before the friendship starts. Now I know there’s feelings involved when we like someone, but how do you recognize those feelings, and begin to understand if there actually genuine or not? And my advice with your question, is to move on, but also talk to him, and tell him how you feel, and if he’s still acting like he was, rather than being upfront, and apologizing, then why put yourself into the position where your get hurt again? Because at that point, a friendship wouldn’t work, because a friend doesn’t treat people like that either…. Well anyway hope things work out for you, and I’m glad your doing the right thing, and getting some advice. You seem to be a lot more mature than most :)