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I think you did the right thing, you asked for him to do what you felt you needed and he didn't.
Talking to an ex along isn't a directly problem but the fact you made it clear you didn't like it. Shows the disrespect more than anything on this.
Overall respect is about making a person feel equal and valued. That can mean different things to people, but in this situation it's clear his ex and his independence is more important than what you want.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE