I did not sign the birth certificate because I was wanting a paternity test first. She was pissed I even suggested such a thing but I caught a guy hiding in her shower when she was 4 months pregnant so I wanted to be sure. Well a week after the baby was born, she dumped me, and I don't have anyway to contact her. She does not live where she used to, her phone is cut off. I tried getting a court ordered paternity test but the lawyer I talked to wanted $4000. I don't have that kind of money. What do I do? Will I ever see my child again? Do you think it even is my child?