my boyfriend cheated on me and I gave him a second chance everything was going great and he would treat me so well until today I decided to go through his found because he always told me to do it because he had nothing to hide so I took the offer and did it while he was sleeping and found out he was talking to multiple of girls and asking them for nudes and the girls would ask him for dick pics then he got an email notification saying he had 12 matches and I clicked on it turns out he had an online dating account...
i feel mad, horrible and, so disgusted someone please help me:( I'm so angry because i dont get why he would do that I literally did everything I could to make us have a healthy relationship can someone give me kind or motivational words please?
Most Helpful Guy
Motivational words? Dump this guy. There are plenty of guys who do not behave like that.
How long did you know this guy before you decided that you were a couple? Stop expecting that if you have sex with a guy then he is going to love you. It doesn't work that way. Sex and love are two entirely different things. Have sex because you want to have sex, not because you think it's going to get some guy to love you. If you don't want to have sex with guys who aren't seriously interested in you, then date a guy for a while before having sex.1
Most Helpful Girl
First things first leave his ass. You don't need that kind of stress in your life. You're in the prime of your years and trust me there are wayyyyy better men than him walking around waiting for an amazing chick like you. Don't be afraid to move on from him because what he didn't/wouldn't or won't do for you another one will. Don't miss out on a better opportunity! You were too much of a good thing to him so fuck him. Also, don't think any less of yourself. A queen never takes her jewels off her crown for any reason. You are strong! Breakups are shitty but you will live and love again. Don't hold you head down and shut others out. Shine your crown and get back out there cause that prince charming is somewhere waiting for you. You don't deserve to be toyed with. No one does. It's not fair that you stay faithful while he cheats. He doesn't deserve any other chances either. Having sex with a guy won't make him stay. If he wants to be kept you'll know.1