Most Helpful Girl
It's a painful situation to be in, because you are torn between letting go or moving on. It's such a difficult decision to make
In the end, your own emotional state should be paramount.
Personally, I'd mediate on what would be more painful... letting go and not having her part of your life anymore. Or holding on and try to accept that a friendship is all you'll ever have with her.
It depends on how emotionally strong you are. I'm an emotionally strong person , but I couldn't remain friends with someone I loved and wanted a relationship with. Eventually she'll meet someone, and watching someone you love... loving someone else would be far too painful and too much to bare
So you need to know what what you can cope emotionally
Most Helpful Guy
If it keeps hurting you, you'll need to cut the ties on all ends.