So me and my ex boyfriend still talk. I do still have feelings for him and I am not sure about whats going on with him. He made first initaiative after bu to talk and we did have sex a few times. Sometimes the way he talked seemed as though it was just for sex other times it didn't and when i saw him it was like we never seperated. it was passionate and loving. I always stay the night and he cuddles with me, grabs me close and kisses me. Its amazing. Tonight i asked if he wanted to stop by tonight or tomorrow because i have the house to myself and thought we could hang or watch a movie or soemthing. he said he didn't know about that lol. I asked why and he just said he has a lot going on and he's not sure how he's feeling about everything. Could he be having thoughts about me and him still having sex or feelings or what? yes I do still love him and yes I want a comitment. This could totally be about us or it couldnt. I like to think the happy thoughts
He said not sure how he's feeling about everything right now. Could it be about us?
What Guys Said 1
Whats going on between you two could definitely be a factor. Its tough not being with someone but acting as if you are. For both yourself and him its probably very emotionally draining. Sometimes people say ex's are ex's for a reason and sometimes ex's can successfully get back together. However you should tell him how you feel and what your thoughts are about the two of you. The whole back and forth is really hard to deal with for both and the quicker you can decide on one or the other, the better.0
What Girls Said 1
I think you need to cut all contact so he can figure out his shit. Guys are weird with commitment sometimes and when things seem to be moving fast in the "commitment" direction, they get scared and run. Give him space and let him come to u. Try not to have sex with him either. While he has his space, try and move on with your life and figure out who you are. Due to the fact that u gave him all the things u gave him, shows u don't love and respect yourself enough. You need to gain that within yourself before committing to anyone.1
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