Although he wasn't thrilled about me dating others and I told him I wouldn't, I'm gonna start dating guys in my area, I don't think he cares for me at all. I was excited by new adventures, a new love and a chance at happiness w/another guy. I know this is a phase as I went through it w/my ex, longer though. I'm glad this guy told me what was going on, but he did it in such a way that made it a lot easier for himself and very painful for me. The thing that sucks the most was being teased, taking a plunge (a LDR) w/someone who promised to show me the way. I'm not opposed to LDR, as the distance wasn't an issue for me, his distance and coldness was the root of all of it. If he really cared for me he would have done anything for me and would have given me the chance instead of using the sins of exes against me. I want to find a man who loves me and is willing to risk to be w/me. How can I make the healing process a teeny weeny bit faster? I haven't hung out w/people because I know I will dwell on him and I just need a week or two for myself. Thoughts? Why is he so selfish and expect me to wait, yet doesn't even contact me for days?
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I'm so sorry I know ur pain all I can offer is cyber hugs... and all I'd say is take ur time unrequited love hurts more than a breakup.. others drags out. But time do heal all wounds luv and you and me we'll be OK eventually.