Should I tell her how I feel?

Anonymous
I am beyond confused and really need some help.

I am sick to my stomach and heart aches...

I met this girl at work, I fell in love with her ( She has a really friendly personality that I didn't see at the time)

I asked her out, and she said no ( Later I found out she had a boyfriend)

I was really hurt, she is my first love...

It's been a year now, I have been trying to get over her, and realized that we aren't ment for each other...

But I found out she is single, granted she may not like me...

But I want these feelings to go away, and I am not sure if I should talk to her about it with her and I have been ignoring her and it has made things a bit tense between us...

I want to say that I had feelings, I was hurt when she rejected me, and just want to know what she thinks and get her opinion on everything?

Should I tell her how I feel?

Will I get closure?



Updates:
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I am really confused because I got over her, made a huge list of reasons why it would never work, started working on myself and forgetting about her...

But she is single now...
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and I am just confused because I have feelings but don't want to date her anymore...
Should I tell her how I feel?
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