im single because I was cheated on and I want to stay single for a while to focus on myself and heal.
Most Helpful Guy
I am single because bitter experience has taught me to not trust women, as a collective; and because there is too much pain inside my heart for me to be open to anyone.
When one particular woman used and betrayed me, I went through a level of pain that was so great that a strong subconscious association has been formed between women and unbearable pain.
Women make moves on me a lot and sometimes they straight out hit on me. When that happens, I freeze, a bit like when my iMac has the spinning wheel of death. The operating system freezes and that is it.
Another reason is the appalling legal liability to which men expose themselves if they have any form of involvement with women.
1. Ask a woman on a date = possible sexual harassment complaint.
2. Go on a date = possible false rape allegation, whether or not anything sexual happened.
3. Have consensual sex = possible false rape allegation the next day, week, month, year, or whatever, if she changes her mind and withdraws consent retrospectively.
4. Cohabit with or marry a female = 50 per cent probability that she will use the Family Court to steal everything that the man owns and then the Child Support Agency to impose a child-support order that will transform him into her impoverished slave for the rest of his life. In some jurisdictions, he may also be subject to a spousal-support order. If he is unable or unwilling to pay, the court will send men with guns to put him in chains and drag him to the modern version of debtors' prison, where he may well stay for the rest of his life.
Involvement with women could be compared with playing Russian roulette with a revolver that had only two chambers.
Unbearable pain and unacceptable legal risks are the reasons that I am single.
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Most Helpful Girl
I'm not single BUT I remember why I was single since the first time I broke up and before..
I didn't have a real boyfriend until I was 17 because I was really reserved with guys and didn't really draw the kind of attention I wanted.
The first time I broke up it was because I was unhappy at how fast I was moving sexually.
The second time it was because that guy was not a good person for me and I didn't like him anymore.
The other times it was a hot mess-break up, get back together, break up, get back together. And then a final break up because I knew we were never going to work and it would always be toxic.
All the times I was single-I never looked for another boyfriend. If I ever got single again I will NOT be so passive on the dating scene-I won't look for a match, but I will not be exclusive to anyone until I'm sure I really feel a spark.