Bottom line he is very defensive any time I ask him a simple question. This has gone on for 2 years and gotten so bad we don't talk cause I know he will freak out. What's up with this? Last but not least the romance is long gone unless he wants it.
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I don't believe once a cheater always a cheater, but the fact that he's defensive to the point where you can't talk to him sounds fishy. It seems as though he's got you where he wants you. He's got a girl of convenience...that's you! Is that who you want to be? You have to know that you deserve better than that.
It might be late to say, but you should have dropped him a long time ago, actually right after he cheated with your best friend. Cheating is bad enough, but this kind of cheating sounds like this guy doesn't care about you. Even though it was 2 years ago it still speaks volumes about the kind of person he is. Now 2 years later he's defensive when asked questions, and you say there is no romance UNLESS HE WANTS?!?! Love, I don't know you, but believe when I tell you that if you continue to allow him to treat you this way he will continue to do so.
You need to decide what you want, and how you want to be treated. If you want to be treated better then demand that, and if you he doesn't then move on. No matter how bad things are between you two, if bad is what you want to feel then you can even do that without him. Basically, what I'm saying is that you don't need him. Take some time and work on you...that is what you deserve.
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