Getting an ex back?
What Guys Said 1
You've probably completely lost him now. He probably sees you as more trouble that requires much more effort for little or no gain. And being with someone who he gets on really well with and who probably won't break the relationship, he probably sees no reason to be with you any more. The one he's with may seem or is more beneficial to him than you are. And so his interest for you dies, and he gains new interest for someone else.
That's how I'd see it anyway, he probably sees it the same way. So you've probably lost him for good. The only chance you got now is hoping they fall out and break up, otherwise you've probably got no chance.
What Girls Said 1
You pushed him away and expect him to trust you? More then likely you have lost him. I would let him be for now and in the future if you truly care for someone, you will not push them away. I am experiencing something similar though I did not date the guy for long. Pretty much its been almost 2 weeks of NC after he told me he needed to sort things out. I care for him, but if he comes back I cannot trust that he won't leave me out in the cold again if he has more stress in his life. Your ex wants a good life too, don't expect him to put his life on hold to deal w/your drama w/no guarantee that he will be happy in the relationship.
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