About a month ago I suggested that we take a break on our relationship. But it was only because she let this gay guy from her hometown come live on her couch. I couldn't stand him. not because he was gay but just because he was very annoying and he would drink a whole bottle of Heaven Hill vodka and listen to really annoying music. I couldn't handle it anymore. So, I asked for a break but she didn't want to do a break because we also broke up a week before because of him also. She said that I broke her heart but I never wanted to leave her. I want her back so bad. After the split she called me many times trying to work things out with me but I was really enjoying my free time away from the two of them. But after two weeks I started calling her and now she's the one ignoring me. What should I do?
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You need to have a calm, mature conversation where you both listen to each other and share your feelings in a tactful way. Remember that relationships require compromise. She has the right to do what she wants with her own couch, but she needs to respect your feelings as well. If you don't feel comfortable around this guy for legitimate reasons (i. e. his drinking habits) then she needs to take that into consideration.1