now." I never told him to leave her, not one time ever. His response was, "you're to leave me and my fiance alone... Good bye." "we can't talk anymore" and something about him and his girlfriend, but now he's calling her his "fiancé" which he told me he broke off the engagement to her a few weeks ago. He talks so much sh*t about her, he even sent me inappropriate pics and told me that very same day that he blocked me that he wanted me and only me. Last time he sent me a message like that he told me he did it to get her off of his back and that he didn't mean it. He told me that he loves me and misses me every day. Why would he do what he did or if he did? Do you think it's over for good or is something else going on?
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I'm going to be honest. This whole thing just sounds like a clusterfuck, and if by some chance it's not over, it should be.
It's never really a good idea to mess around with taken people, no matter the situation. This exact same thing happened to a friend of mine, whose "boyfriend" told her he couldn't wait to leave his wife for her and all of this and that. And then he ended up telling her to leave he and his wife alone too. To me, just the fact that a person is willing to cheat would be a red flag, although both of you were doing it.
It's already started to blow up, and sounds like it will just turn into a disaster if you just don't leave it alone.