Our birthdays are this week and when he broke up with me he said "are you still going to come to the bonfire (we were both hosting) on Saturday?" I said no and Ill tell my friends its canceled. he wanted to be friends but I told him it was too hard for me, he said he understood. He started the breakup thing by saying "I dont think we should be together anymore... I m really sorry... maybe in a year or two..." And I said "no..." (To the year or two part). It s just so hard. The week before he broke it off he was distant. He says he cares about me.
He says he loves me & I know he means it. His family wants us back together and for a "switch to flip".
If it helps I'm turning 21 and he's turning 23 this week.