He's strictly talking about when alcohol is involved because he's 100% against alcohol. And I get that, but I don't think he's being fair. What he said really bothers me, but is it enough to break up with him?
Most Helpful Guy
Lol. If all women who had drunk sex claimed it was rape. There's definitely a grey line here between the women who were actually sexually assaulted and the women who just have sexual regret.
He has a point, and you can't actually be serious about breaking up with him just over that. I dislike alcohol myself and I think people should be more responsible with it themselves. So today drunk sex is rape and tomorrow drunk n drive will just be an accident? No, a person must live within their limits. If they are inhibited, get into fights, cause accidents and have casual sex and blame the other party. I can't take them seriously. Like ever.0
Most Helpful Girl
It depends on how strongly you disagree with him. If you don't think this is something you can forgive and see past, then maybe breaking up is whats right for you.
As for what he said, I personally think it is crap. I am a rape victim.
I was at a friends birthday and I drank too much, mostly because I didn't realize how strong the drinks were. It hit me so hard all at once. I couldn't stand or think and I wanted to go home because I was afraid I was going to die. My friend asked me if I wanted to go home with him and I said yes. I thought he was protecting me and going to help me get home and put me to bed... I didn't know he was referring to sex. He took me to his apartment, undressed me while I was half-conscious and raped me. I have the foggiest memory of it, but all I know is that he was on top of me and I couldn't do anything to get him off. He claimed he was trashed too. He said I gave consent. That was not consent because I didn't agree to sex, and he was way less drunk than I was. I never pressed charges. My friends didn't think it was a big deal either. I still feel so violated and it was 8 years ago.0