Was contacting my ex a mistake?
What Guys Said 2
Yes contacting him was a mistake. I'm not sure what you wanted or expected to come of messaging someone after 4 years of not speaking. I would delete it and not give you a second thought as I wouldn't see the need to talk to an ex just to bullshit with an ex. I would just forget about it.
wait a week at least
What Girls Said 1
I would already have forgot about sending the message to him. I mean, maybe he hasn't seen it maybe he is waiting to reply later. Maybe maybe maybe. Why worry? It is nothing you can change. :) I say, don't wait, just do what you usually do and get surprised if he answers/ forget it if he don't.
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