As I said before, there is this guy that is likes me and we talk everyday and I feel like I am in an unofficial relationship. He said he fears hurting me because he made a promise to himself that he would stay a virgin until he turns 18 (guess what he's 18 now). He still somewhat talks to his ex even though he claims he really only likes me and that he talks to her for the possibility of sex. What should I do? I feel like I'm in limbo, like there is nothing to pursue here. He won't be my boyfriend, yet it bothers him when other guys try to talk to me. Oh yea, he asked me to have sex with him. That's not happening though. I like being a virgin. I feel like he really wants to get rid of his virginity and that's all that's on his mind right now. Should I leave him alone? P.S. He's my prom date...
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You picked a prom date who is looking to lose his viginity? Well, that is not going to be a very eventful night for him.
He's one of the guys who you should leave alone because his interests in you are only sexual in nature. It bothers him when other guys talk to you because they are stepping in his territory when he's put work in getting to know you.
Since you are his prom date you need to let him where you stand because you don't want him thinking he's going to get some after prom nookie or anything like that.1