She said she still cares for me & she thinks about me a lot. She said she wouldn't mind still being in contact. (What's she mean by this exactly?) Which is weird, because usually she's the emotional one always hurt. In the past when we broke up, she told me she couldn't be friends because she loved me too much. So I guess she doesn't love me anymore. But anyways That's when I just didn't reply to her. Then she said "You can't say all of that and then ignore me?" I didn't reply after that. So as of now I'll just get over her. Should I continue to ignore her and then proceed with no contact? or should i message back? I'd love to be back with her but as of now it doesn't seem like it's happening. What' to do?
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In my opinion, you both don't really seem compatible together.
She blocked you instead of having a serious and thorough conversation about the problem. I don't get the blocking method nowadays. It's like when a person is mad at you, they block you. But I have a few ideas as to why she blocked you. One, you were probably right to hound her about that guy, becuase maybe she WAS doing something with him she wasn't supposed to. She couldn't handle the responsibility and put the blame on you. Could be a possibility.
She mentions that how you treated her in the past was something she couldn't get over. Oh NOW it bothers her? If she couldn't get over it, she should have broken up with her earlier, or least TALK to you about it. Seems communication is broken in this relationship.
She said you're holding her back from school. If somebody told me that, I'd never get back with him if he seems as getting the way or a blockage to whatever his goals are. Have some respect for yourself, dude.
You did small t hings to break her trust, and played the quiet game on her. Now, in a way, you know how it feels to be ignored or not heard from in a while. It does hurt. But this is very immature.
You said in the past, you broke up before. Why can't you guys ever stay together and consistent? Doesn't sound all that compatible, does it?
You work to get her to talk to you again, and you do, but then you're ignoring her? Which do you want, man? Because now, if you're just ready to move on, t hen there was really no use in contacting her, and even raising her hopes for nothing.
In my opinion, I wouldn't get back with her. Just be polite, and tell her you've thought about it, and realize getting back together was a good idea, and that she was right to break it off. Wish her well in her goals in school and tell her you hope she's happier in her future relationships. This way, you sound humble, non-grudged, and showing that you still care for her. Maybe this will make her look back and realize what she lost.
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