The past few weeks my live in boyfriend & I have been fighting TOO much. It took a dramatic turn when the other day I added an ex as a friend on facebook (very innocently) and he now second guesses me. He says I hurt him, he doesn't trust me, etc. I've been trying everything to get him to see he CAN trust me and I didn't do it to hurt him. For days we fought about me and MY issues and he says he needs time to think if he wants to be with me. I gave him his space. He then tells me he's still not sure so I suggested on me moving out and he said it wasn't fair that I wasn't giving him enough time. Last night he came on drunk and wanted to have sex. I gave in, and he didn't kiss me or tell me he loved me afterward like normal. It felt different. Today, he isn't speaking to me at all. He is now pushing me away, and I want nothing to do with him. How do I handle this?
Most Helpful Guy
Handle it by finding another place to live. It sounds like your relationship is over.
And. . . you adding an ex on FB was not "innocent," was it? Be honest with yourself. If I was in your boyfriend's position, I would have very strong suspicions about you adding an ex. When your relationship was having problems, you added another problem to the mix. Learn a lesson from what happened.1
Most Helpful Girl
Well I'd be done after the sex thing. Sex should always bring you closer not push you apart. And it should definitely make you feel loved.
Move on. Tough situation. but the feeling of relief is like a breath of fresh air.
He sounds a bit insecure/immature and probably needs time to grow up anyway.
Even if something one of you does bothers the other, it's the communication to solve the issue that will define wether or not you should be together. Fights happen, but the love should fight harder.