So, there's this guy whom had a thing for me a while back. It never worked out because apparently he met someone else first, they started dating, and got engaged. I was very hurt because I liked him a lot, but I got over it. The way things where going with us, it seemed we'd be the perfect couple, and that we had a lot in common, but he held back his pursuit of me, because the other girl whom he liked first.
His girl gives me ugly stares, and doesn't seem to like me, because I think he told her about me.
I think they're breaking off the engagement, and I'm afraid he'll start pursuing me now.
Let's say that's the case, I feel he'll just keep up with the same cycles running back & forth from me to her, and never commit. Or that he'll keep me strong along to prevent from going so far as he did with the last girl.
What would you suggest?
Most Helpful Guy
If someone is/was engaged and they are willing to end it just to get with another person, who's to say they won't do it to you in the future when a new gal pops up.4
Most Helpful Girl
Well, first off, you only *think* they might break off the engagement so don't get ahead of yourself. You don't even know *if* they'll break it off and *if* he'll start pursuing you. So cross that bridge when you actually get to it.
But ok, for the sake of your question, it clearly seems like you're uncomfortable with the idea of dating him since he comes off as unstable and you're afraid that it would be a very on-off-on-off-on-off thing. You basically answered your own question. Don't do it.
And I personally wouldn't do it either. It would make me uncomfortable.0