Most Helpful Girl
i completely get your pain im going through the same thing if u truly love her u will forgive her but the pain takes time to ease i wish everyday i didn't think of the pain that i have but i forgave my husband but that doesn't mean i can forget what happened only time will tell. if u can't forgive her and stay with her u and her are only going to be miserable. good luck.
Most Helpful Guy
Here's the thing...
Will the pain go away enough to make taking her back palatable? Maybe.
But if you *did* get over that pain and take her back, what does that say about you? Are you willing to accept being treated like a POS? And if so, how could you live with that?
I know I'm not in your shoes -- and I certainly don't envy you. I just can't imagine how a good man could take this woman back and feel good about himself.