I'm so lost and in need of help?
What Guys Said 1
Sounds like a pretty lousy relationship honestly.
How old are the kids?
I don't think you should stay in a bad relationship like this "for the kids". You would be better off if you could agree to a divorce, remain on good terms (act like adults), and find someone who you could have a healthy, loving relationship with to set a good example for your kids. You want them to grow up and know what a loving relationship looks like, not have them think that it's normal and healthy to be in an unhappy, cold, disrespectful relationship... because if that's how they see mommy and daddy, it's probably what they'll go out and create when they grow up too.
What Girls Said 1
I mean if you're not happy leave. The kids shouln't be a reason for you to stay
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