My husband recently left me and come back on the terms I would be "submissive" sexually and in normal day to day life watch what I say to him etc utmost respect. He doesn't respect me that mug to tbh I don't think. I mean he says he loves me all the time words are easy tho. Found out he text my only friend last night at 3am looking for his male friend to watch the fight with. They got talking a bit in text he told me it was short and sweet but I visited my friend and saw a lengthy chat history from last night ". Point is because I confronted him he said he wot put up with me and will leave again? Why do this to a nice girl I'm crushed inside don't know what to do or think anymore help?