My ex and I broke up 4 months ago but are still in contact. he initiated the contact since the bu. We have also had sex a few times as well. I do still have feelings for him and eventually want to tell him but for some reason everytime I say i am i never do. Anyway I just worked with him for 3 weeks and everyone knew we were together and saw us looking at each other so they knew. Well it was his birthday last night. Midnight I wished him one he called me at 2 am but i didn't answer which he never calls but i know he was out with freinds. Then yesterday i said hope he was having a good day. He said thanks and then we texted more. We were joking around and i said something so he said I didn't have the balls to come say it to his face. Well I proved him wrong, but it lead to us having sex which I sort of knew. We talked a bit about camp and such and he asked where I got the scratches on my back from. he goes prob from someone else right I said yeah sure. I said well you are prob getting it all over. he said no i dont even go out and he gave me a compliment about my hair when he saw me saying it looked good and saying things like he didn't remember seeng something on me before I saw a magic band box near his bed. I asked if he was going on a trip he said maybe. I saw the itnirary when he was in the bathroom. He is going for 3 days. So I said why u being secrative he said he wasn't and that he might be going on a trip. So I said ok. I grabbed him and pulled him down on the bed and kissed him and then I got dressed to leave. Upon leaving he goes ok bye and tried to hug me so i said i dont want this crap. He grabbed me and hugged me for a at least a minute so after I grabbed him and kissed him on the cheek and left. What is going on? A part of me thinks there is something still and he doesn't know what he wants and a part of me really doesn't know. Should I text him in the next few days asking to talk? I want to get it out in the open
He is confusing. its a bit long. I need help with him, is there any chance?
What Guys Said 1
People act so weird when they are doing shit with exes they probably shouldn't. . . .
Yes before you spread your legs for him again it probably would be a good idea to find out if this is just a "we're just fucking" relationship or will this lead to you getting back together. Most likely though your just messing around, most ex things happens like that until someone either gets pissed off or finds someone else to fuck.0
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