I've sometimes felt dissapointed, sometimes angry, sometimes confused but never showed any hate. Never been aggressive.
But I hear girls and guys can be pretty nasty even if the other person just wants to break up and hasn't done anything wrong.
Last time round I just said "take care" and just walked away.
What have you said most commonly, or what do you like saying?
Doesn't matter who ended it.
Most Helpful Girl
Something like "take care" or "good luck with everything" or something like that... I too have never really felt the need to be nasty. The one time that I was was when I was at my wits end after months of manipulative and cruel bullshit. I finally had enough of being accused of cheating (which I didn't do) and being told if I didn't tell him "the truth" he'd kill himself, that I finally said "fine, then fucking do it!" And hung up. Far as I know he was still alive a few years later but I haven't spoken to him since and it's been about 5 years since I lost touch with the last of our mutual acquaintances.2
Most Helpful Guy
A polite bye bye and silence. No drama ever.1