Most Helpful Guy
I don't understand how you can completely love/adore someone who is emotionally abusive to you or an abusive person as such?
Logically it's not making any sense to me at all, according to me that is not possible. Emotions and feelings are so weird!.
Anyways there are ways to walk away from an abusive partner. I'll post a link
Hope it helps
Most Helpful Girl
I don't want to scare you, but be prepared to need legal intervention just in case. Emotional abusers are "codependent", and need to bully others to feel okay in their own minds. He won't let you get away easily. But realizing that you need to leave is often the hardest part. They establish a cycle of abuse and over affection to train you into thinking that the abuse is normal. Get a counselor or therapist lined up for after you break away. The hardest parts are yet to come. You may end spending months agonizing over what *you* did wrong, what you did to *deserve* that treatment. You haven't done anything wrong, he's just really messed up and needs help but instead took out his issues on you. You need to be prepared to completely cut all contact and not give in to talk to him no matter what. He may try all manner of threats and guilt trip, don't buy into it. In the end you are not responsible for his feelings.
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