Most Helpful Guy
Damn sister, you I feel like we're in the same boat!! I can see you from the lower deck.
I've got the exact same thing going on. Same with this girl. Who will cut me off occasionally. And then randomly pop back up.
And all I can think about is what a relationship with her would truly be like. We briefly dated, but it wasn't right. It was barely dating. But I really care about her more than anyone else. Like no other girl compares to her. and part of me I guess feels like I want to know why I wasn't good enough to last like some of the others that got better treatment you know.
But I wouldn't worry about something that might happen!! No guarantee it won't last. It's one of those leap of faith type situations, but you owe it to yourself to see what comes of being with this guy that's been on your mind more so than the others.
I would give anything to be back in a relationship with the girl thats like that guy is for you lol.
Most Helpful Girl
I am just going to be honest here, I know you really like this guy but he is only using you whenever it is convenient for him. He basically comes and goes whenever he pleases and because he knows he will get the attention that he needs from you to boost his ego, he keeps coming back.
I personally would drop him, only because he can never return the love you have for him. He dates other women and just goes to you when he needs to stroke his ego, does that sound fair? Find yourself a man who is certain about how he feels for you that you wouldn't have to doubt him. You deserve to be treated with respect and like a queen however, this won't happen until you respect yourself enough to know when to walk away from a hopeless situation (aka him).