I dated a guy for eight months and he would never have sex with me because he could never get hard. He wouldn't get hard for me ever so we only had sex like twice. He said it was my fault because I wasn't good enough at sex and he could finish for every other girl of his past but me, let alone get hard. (I'm a fit and cute girl by the way, and a lot of people said I was out of his league). It's been a while since we broke up and I found out he was cheating on me with an overweight, not very attractive girl. I asked him about it and he was just like she's sooo pretty and she's way better at sex than you. What the fuck? I don't know what to think. Every other guy I've slept with performs fine no matter what I should do... What should I think about this?
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Look, no matter about the other woman (and I won't comment on her because it's typical for us to exaggerate or insult the other girl. Se could be hot for all we know).
He was cheating. He wasn't able to perform for you because he'd already gotten it. It is never your fault he couldn't get hard. And how can you be bad at sex if you never have the damn sex.
He's a cheating, lying jerk who tried to make you feel bad because he only wanted sex from you in the first place and didn't get it because he was trying to have sex with everyone else.
He also probably had erectile issues in general and was taking his impotent related anger out on you1