Most Helpful Girl
He took all I had by making me homeless. I had to rebuild my life and myself. It was a long hard struggle , but I've finally gained back more than I lost
The positive side is , the hurt and pain has subsided now , but it helped me to be a stronger person, but not bitter.
Most Helpful Guy
Nobody has done me anything but good. Without exception, when I look back at somebody that left me for example, I'm happy they did because even though it was painful at the time, it helped me get real about what I want and don't want. In every case, I am more even keeled, more gentle and more loving as a result.
So I welcome negative experiences :-)