We agreed to wait and the relationship fell through?

I fell in love with an older man. There is 9 years between me and him. We hit it off right away and fell in love. We were together for about 9 months. A parent of mine stepped in and used his connections to create a no contact order between me and him and I lost touch with him other than a moment here and there in public. Our time of waiting is almost up and I received a text from someone saying "you moved on leave him alone." I expressed the truth to him in that situation and everything was fine. Two weeks later I received another text that said "this is his girlfriend, I've read all your texts from him. He's too nice to tell you that he doesn't want to speak with you anymore. Stop texting him." Of course it hurt reading that. Yesterday I found out that a fellow coworker of mine is the one dating him now. She wasn't even the one that told me. Today I saw him at work and he wouldn't even look at me. The problem is as much as I hate him for doing this to me I still love him. I don't know what to do anymore because not only was he my love, he also saved my life. I would have killed myself if it wasn't for him.
Can anyone give me any encouraging words or wisdom on what to do? Every time I see him I get emotional and I don't know how to deal with it.

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  • Be thankful he once saved your life. But don't let him ruin the rest of it. Start looking for another job. Move on and don't look back.

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  • how can a parent create a no contact order. you're an adult.

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    • he's an officer i really don't understand how it went down. I just came home one day and was informed of the no contact order. I live with my parents because my car is in their name so they won't let me leave. I guess because I live with him they can do that?

    • no that sounds very corrupt. living with them doent change your age. they can block him from their house but not from you. this is 2016 not 1516. you're not part of the property :)

      why do they have anything against him, do you know?

    • other than his age nothing. He's a good man who doesn't drink or smoke he has a good job at a funeral home aiding people with grief. He is a friendly guy that everyone in the town knows.

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  • "Letting go doesn't mean that you don't care about someone anymore. It's just realizing that the only person you really have control over is yourself."

    Deborah Reber

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  • Move on

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