this but op needs to understand that she will have to grieve for a couple of months before moving on. grieving takes time but the mind heals.
@chriss That's only if it's truly over. They are on a break. Some people do get back together after a break and their relationship becomes stronger. That's why she needs to talk to him, and know where she stands so she can heal and move on. At the moment she's unsure of where she stands with him , so moving on is more difficult because she needs closure to enable her to do that Obviously If he doesn't contact her , or respond to her then his silence is as good an answer as his words. So that'll be the closure she needs
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we weren't married.
I understand.. I was just making a comparison. A long term relationship,, or any relationship isn't going to be serious if you take "breaks". All a break does is indicate you are in a casual dating situation.. not a real relationship.
this was/is the first break we took.
Doesn't matter. Even one is bad.
I've told him that I'm at the point where I want to move on, but I don't want to at the same time.
That's a confusion , not a sign.
I've also told him that I miss him