Long story short, my SO went through phone and saw text thread from someone from the past. The conversation was strictly business. I consoled this person regarding an investment that my boyfriend and I were looking to do together. He knows all about business and realty. Was mentioned previously that I'm happily in a relationship but SO can't get over that I had a "past" with this. Stupid move. He gave me an option of letting him see the conversation or the relationship was over. I patiently explained to him that the conversation was strictly businesss and was previously mentioned that I was in a relationship. He ended it anyway, after the fact that he felt upset that I consoled a person from the past. He told me to leave his home and I left, but I wanted to explain and now I'm concerned that he'd want nothing to do with me anymore :(
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So you were talking to ex for "business reasons" and you told him your happy in your relationship, but didn't tell your partner as if you had, he wouldn't of "found it" whilst going through your phone.
The fact he's going through your phone suggests there are trust issues already and that you haven't mentioned that you had been dealing with an ex would raise red flags for him as if there is nothing to hide, why hide it or not mention it in normal conversation looks very dubious.
Your story says you were dealing with him for business reasons that he knows about then changes at the end to you were "consoling him" which is more emotional than a usual business interaction.
Even I'm suspicions and I don't know you :-
-Talking to an ex
- already trust issues
- you hide/fail to menti on it to him
- changes/inconsistencies in your story
I don't think he's coming back and if he does he will never trust you
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