Boyfriend joining frat 500 miles away? will it work or not? -- I posted this on here not to long ago it says basically what is going on.
If that's the case, it makes me wonder is there a frat in that area there that you can also join and be closer to him? But to be realistic about it you would have to face the possibility that the relationship may be already over and that he did not want to formally end it with you. Just give it some more time, if he comes back sometime not to long later or whatever then maybe it might still work. Otherwise, just gather all your will, strength and determination to move on. Don't get so caught up and become down and depressed about it or anything. For every ending, there will be a New Beginning. It could just be that this chapter in your life, regarding this relationship you have had with him had ended and that it's a whole new chapter beginning in your life's story.
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Boyfriend joining frat 500 miles away? will it work or not? --- i just posted this on here im not sure if you can search it it will come up but I wrote basically everything that is going on in our relationship
oh. Hm. Yeah just read that and.. he sounds controlling af. In addition to putting a huge double standard on stressing that you're not allowed to party or go out because that's only something that singles do, yet he goes and joins a frat, of all things?Sounds like he's tripping over his ego. Though I only know that little bit of information and not everything in context, based off of that alone, I'd be concerned for sure. Not so much about this lone incident of him being distant recently, but the whole dynamic and mind-set of his in general.
RIGHT!!! like thats what im trippin off of right now is that he's being out being a social butterfly but then am i really mad because he's being social or just because he being a hypocrite. I tried summing up the entire summer and these last couple day in 2000 words. He is insecure though.
No. Don't let the fact that he's insecure (which probably 90% of people could relate to) allow him to treat you like that. Plus, I don't see how him being insecure would result in him barring you from socializing/gong out, yet give himself the liberty of doing whatever the fuck he wants, y'know? You have to set some boundaries. If he's genuinely insecure, I guess you can not go clubbing or not go out so much. However, only under the condition that the same rules apply to him.
Ughh your so right!! I do need to set boundaries. looking back I feel as if i never did. OH and one more thing to add. So he was supposed to come down to our home town for this wedding that we both were going to and he changed his mind and i still told him to come down and he said verbatim " why would i go down there, there is no reason for me to go" like as if IM not a reason you know. we got into a huge argument over that comment.
... yikes.Girl, you know he's bad news. Tell him what you just told me here and if he doesn't own up to fucking up and change his ways, I'd say it'd be in your best interest to call it quits.
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look up ( Boyfriend joining frat 500 miles away? will it work or not? ) It basaclly states everything that is going on.
Right I saw that now. Yes it will be very difficult in that case, most probably it won't.