i was in a relationship for 3 months an friendship for 3 aswell. i didn't want to open up to him because i was ashamed of not having the perfect family life like him it made me jelly but also nervous cause i been through a lot such as molestation, beatings, being abandoned all the time it takes a long time to open up for me should i have shown him the real me? i regret not showing him an them but it was just too much to soon..
Am I a bad person for hiding myself?
What Guys Said 1
No you are not a bad person.0
What Girls Said 2
Everyone feels more comfortable at different times in their relationship. I told my boyfriend i was molested and abused and dealing with an eating disorder before we started dating so he knew what he was getting him self into and how much baggage I had since I sill have bad ptsd.
Don't regret showing him when you felt most comfortable, everyone is different1
No you are not1
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