My ex has a ton of my half nude pics saved on his computer in one file. Some of them I don't even remember giving. He refuses to delete them unless I have sex with him. I really wish he could just delete the file. I ask him why he has them and his reply is always "just in case".
This is off topic, but I asked if we could be friends and he refused because he "still has feelings for me." I think he's full of it because he's recommended friends with benefits to me which doesn't require feelings.. I'm really upset and feel used. He views me as nothing but an object. What should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
He will never delete them... he can always make copies.
Blackmail is illegal. Making you have sex with him to delete the pictures is sexual battery... essentially rape, as he would be using coercion to get you to have sex with him... you would be consenting under duress, which means, you are NOT legally giving consent.
I'd honestly give any communications to police and/or contact a sexual abuse counselor or advocate.
Rule: NEVER... ever... take pictures that can come back to you in a bad light.1
Most Helpful Girl
Well at least now youve learned a lesson, i hope...4