My ex has a ton of my half nude pics saved on his computer in one file. Some of them I don't even remember giving. He refuses to delete them unless I have sex with him. I really wish he could just delete the file. I ask him why he has them and his reply is always "just in case".
This is off topic, but I asked if we could be friends and he refused because he "still has feelings for me." I think he's full of it because he's recommended friends with benefits to me which doesn't require feelings.. I'm really upset and feel used. He views me as nothing but an object. What should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
file a legal complaint. and then cops will help you to recover or delete those pics. I guess.2
Most Helpful Girl
Blackmail is serious but it is only as damaging as how much importance you give it. For future reference, do not do this. Men do not respect you when you do this. I would save this for a spouse... and a good spouse at that. For now, realize that it is just a body. Feel beautiful in your body and take away his power by not giving it another day of importance.0