OK, so I caught my boyfriend/fiancé(sorta) cheating on me. His "casual relationship" with her lasted more than 3 months! I busted him out about it, and told him I was going to leave. Of course, the reaction I got was a "please don't leave me, I can change". So here is my question(s). Can he really just break it off with this other woman, and if so, could he really never cheat again as he swears he will not do? And would it be wrong to want to "keep an eye on him" more for a awhile to feel better about it?
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He won't change, he will cheat again, he might get more sneaky, but if you forgive him he will know you are hung up on him and he can keep doing it, and if you catch him again you will probably do it again. People don't change, if he is a cheater, he will keep doing it, don't need to keep an eye on him, you know he will, just accept it or if you are not happy with it move on and find someone else..
Takes time to get over an ex, you won't forget them completly. Its harder if you remain friends, and have contact, hard to move on and be commited to the new relationship you are in and you hope or would be tempted to hook up with him/her, even if its casual or fwb, not healthy.0