-We were together for a year (2 months long distance due to college)
-He broke up with me because he couldn't handle doing long distance anymore
-We both happily agreed to stay friends
-I let him know I didn't want to talk for a week before being friends, and he agreed it'd be best
-A week goes by and I text him asking how he's been assuming we'd start our friendship
-He ignores me and starts tagging some random girl on Facebook, this makes me extremely angry
-I message him some mean things, and we ended up having our first argument
-The next day I apologize and take full blame for the argument
-He blows off my apology, but when I ask if he's mad he says no
-I do a lot of thinking and text him one last time explaining my actions and letting him know I'm in a better place and would like to try and be friends again if he'd give me another chance
-He read the message but ignores it
-I stop texting him all together and start trying to move on
Alright... now we're up to speed. A week and a half goes by and he randomly text me out of the blue saying "Hey..." So I think, okay he's had enough time maybe he's willing to try at a friendship, or he at least wants to tell me something so I reply a couple hours later with a "Hello." He read the message instantly and has yet to say anything... it's been 4 days!!! I was starting to move on but then he acts like he's going to talk to me again and I start getting hopeful only to be let down again. What was the point of texting me if he wasn't going to take the conversation anywhere? I haven't text him anything since the "Hello."
My 2 questions are:
1. Why would he do this?
2. Should I text him again and just say something like "Did you need anything?" or should I just not text him till he says something again?
Most Helpful Guy
You shouldn't text him at all.. Moving on is actually moving on.0
Most Helpful Girl
you two can't be friends yet...