We broke up because she can't handle a relationship right now?
What Girls Said 2
She is definitely stringing you along. She either doesn't know what she wants or there's another guy. If she really was happy with you, then she would find a way to make it work out no matter what she has going on. You're upset because this is still fresh, but give it some time... you'll realize how crazy you were to be all upset about her. You deserve better.
Its hard to say what made her do a 180. You could probably ask (if you're interested). Because she sounds like the type of person who would discuss it with you.
Just recently i had been under all sorts of stress. Was getting really depressed and had doubts about my relationships. I contemplating ending. And while feeling depressed it easy to pull away and not want to drag the person your with arounf with you. I can't say any of this is true in her case. But a possibility.
Either way she probably wants whats best for you. So now is the time to focus on whats best for you. And if that means dating around, you're also free to do that.
What Guys Said 1
She's stringing you along and you're taking the bait.
"Also saying she’s not leaving me to pursue other guys"
To be honest, if a girl said this to me... I would quickly assume that that's exactly what she's doing.
Think of it this way: sometimes people say "It's not you, it's me". We all know it's you. See what I am saying?
Anyhow I would move on and quick. This is textbook string along.
Good luck man!
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