Most Helpful Guy
Some guys never let go. And maybe it gives him a thrill to hack into your networks, since that's his work field... he may do it just out of boredom.
I know I followed exes for years. Not hacking, but lurking on their networks and the like.
Most Helpful Girl
I am in the same horrible situation.
I am not replying to his messages, calls and friend requests. I told my family to do that as well.
He demands to have contact with me and if I give him a reply, he is already getting what he wants. These exes of us are not able to move on and probably won't stop, as it is something psychological.
I am collecting evidence and will soon go to the police. They will be able to go to him and ask him not to contact me again. I can't enjoy my relationship with my man, as my ex is always popping in my mind (in a negative way).