We've been broken up for almost a year now. And he has a new girlfriend. And I still care for him so I'm not gonna front like that didn't hurt. But I find myself checking up on his profile constantly on FB and Instagram. And I know it's my own fault. But I feel like if I were to block him it'd be easier for me to get over him and move on. *laughs because it's been a year* it's been really hard. But the problem is I know he'll know I blocked him. And I don't want him to think "Oh wow she's hurt." Or
"Oh wow. How does she know I have a new girlfriend." We didn't leave in really bad terms or anything. It sucked because we still loved eachother very much but we would fight constantly and there wasn't any trust on my side because point blank I just always thought he was talking to other girls. There was no honesty. We work together too. And if I bump into him he'll kind give me a head nod but won't smile or anything. But now I've hit this point that I don't want to know anything about it. I just want to pretend like he never existed. So if I block him in Facebook the lurking ends. Is it worth me doing this? Do I really need to let him know it hurt me so bad I had to block him? Am I being dramatic? We haven't talked in over a month or so. Since we agreed to end communication.
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No its not a bad idea but maybe unfriend and try & move on so it doesn't look like your hurt as you say, practice not looking for a day then increase it. I did the same with my ex after his new girlfriend added me by mistake probably spying (but I don't know why I thanked my lucky stars when he got with her! I knew she was talking to him and probably more whilst he was still stalking me they got together 2 weeks after we split after finding her make up all over his shirt!) I sent her an inbox saying we didn't have anything to do with him anymore & all these best to them both!
But then it set me off keeping an eye on her page, as why would she be spying on me, and she had put lots of statuses up aimed at me from things he must of told her! Which i just laughed at, i know what he's really like but that is for her to discover all by herself - tricky to get out of the habit but be strong it's gone & done with!