Three weeks ago we reconnected. Making out, snuggling, holding hands, everything I'd been missing this whole time. I really love him. Really. Then each time we hang out he says "I love you," and I'm shocked because I spent a year and a half thinking he didn't want a relationship with me and trying to move on.
Three days ago, he sends me a message on Facebook, saying he's sorry for what he's put me through for the past few weeks, but he doesn't think we should continue.
WTF. Why would he even say I LOVE YOU if he didn't mean it? What sort of sick mind game is this? How can he give me such false hope and then take it all away all over again? I'm devastated and don't know what to do from here. I need your advice.
Most Helpful Guy
Why do some women do that. Wow. Stop putting yourself through mental torture and let him go. I've been dumped by a girl who led me on for a year and after I reached 3rd base she used me then felt bad. It hurts like fucking hell but who wants step in fire again? You must want to. This guy had no control over you but you clearly repeated your past. Enough.
Most Helpful Girl
no one loves exactly the same amount. saying that to you i just men there's no point to it and its not a reason to break up. just an excuse. he sounds like an immature person who has very little awareness or care of his actions. i wouldn't trust him again, but it's ok you tried. you don't want to go through life paranoid.